About the practice
Couples therapy for people who can explain the pattern perfectly and still cannot find their way out of it together.
On this pageUnderstand the people and working relationship before deciding whether to reach out.
We study the actual sequence of conflict—what each of you notices, protects, assumes, and misses—then practice a more honest form of contact in the room.
Who this is for
This work is a strong fit when both partners are willing to examine the pattern rather than prove who started it.
You communicate well in most parts of life but become rigid, distant, or circular with each other.
One of you pursues clarity while the other protects space, and both end up feeling abandoned.
A breach of trust has made ordinary uncertainty feel intolerable.
You want a therapist who will interrupt the pattern without flattening its complexity.
How the work feels
We study the actual sequence of conflict—what each of you notices, protects, assumes, and misses—then practice a more honest form of contact in the room.
Your therapist
Psychologist
I work with couples who are thoughtful about their relationship and still find themselves repeating conversations that go nowhere.
My work is active, emotionally attentive, and unsentimental. We look closely at what happens between you, including the small moments where protection replaces contact.